While not all gender
nonconformity is rooted in gender dysphoria, gender transition is often painful
and persons going through the process are in extra need of support. For those
who have contact to their local church, it would be a huge thing to have their
transition, their acquired gender and their new name recognised and affirmed by
the church in a way that says “you are safe, you are welcome, we love you for
who you are, and as God’s community we stand by you in your isolation and
vulnerability” (using the words of one such person).
Questions for the church are (1)
Can we “unconditionally affirm” trans persons in the sense of loving
them as they are without communicating that they are only welcome and included if their gender
identity conforms to their biological sex but without explicitly affirming the
transition itself?
(2) If it is not possible to affirm trans persons
without affirming transition processes, does the church have the authority
for claiming God’s approval of gender transition itself?
(3) If the church can
be confident in speaking on God’s behalf into such situations, can we offer the
divine stamp of approval on every gender transition or would the church need to
exercise discretion and distinguish between right and wrong transitions?
I see at least three alternative
stories that one could tell: (1) Gender is related to biological sex and gender
nonconformity is the result of confusion, rebellion or illness. Trans persons
are to be loved and affirmed as persons but their nonconformity is not to be encouraged and is
potentially a problem. This first narrative is painful for trans people but this
does not prove that it is wrong. Some Christians believe that this is the story
told in Scripture.
Deuteronomy
22:5 deals with the issue of cross-dressing, women presenting themselves
as men and vice versa. The use of the phrase “abomination to the Lord your God” signals that this cannot
be readily dismissed as irrelevant to the church.
The situation with eunuchs is
different. Deuteronomy
23:1 prohibits men with crushed or severed genitals to enter the assembly
of the Lord but does not use the
word translated “abomination” and Isaiah 53:3-5 envisages the
acceptance of eunuchs. The law is presumably meant to discourage the practice,
while the promise affirms that this does not mean that eunuchs themselves are rejected by
God. Jesus, in Matthew 19:12,
differentiates between different types of castrated males: those who are
eunuchs due to birth, those who become eunuchs because of social and political
obligations, and those who voluntarily become eunuchs for the sake of the
kingdom.
The de-sexing of a eunuch is,
however, arguably not the same as transitioning to a different gender and gender
nonconformity is not the same as transvestism. The plausibility and
truthfulness of this first narrative must but also deserves to be examined.
Another narrative: (2) Gender is
a fluid concept at the interface of an individual’s identity and role
expectations within society, loosely related to biological sex. The church has
no mandate to validate gender stereotypes in general or specific
identifications of individuals and welcomes all regardless of their gender or
other identities and without making anything of those identities.
This ‘agnostic’ narrative has
the advantage of making no controversial claims about gender which are
difficult to justify. It is tolerant but it may be considered insufficient
given that for many gender is a decisive aspect of their identity and
especially so for trans people. Some Christians are in fact more confident about identifying
male and female roles in Scripture but even if passages such as Ephesians 5:22-32 are read as role defining
rather than encouraging Christians to live out existing roles in a certain way,
they would not define the roles of men and women in general but specifically of
husbands and wives. In my view, there is little about gender, separate from
biological sex, within the Bible and one would need to turn to tradition or
science for establishing gender roles.
The Guidance arguably binds the
conscience of clergy to a third narrative, something like this: (3) Our souls
(or minds?) are gendered in the same way that our bodies are sexed. Where there
is incongruity between the gender of the soul and the sex of the body, it is
the gender of the soul that should be affirmed and validated by the Church.
The rationale for this is
presumably the conviction that it is impossible to welcome and affirm trans
people without validating their self-identification. There do not seem to be
any criteria for establishing someone’s gender objectively which would allow us
to speak, e.g., of a female brain in a chromosomal male body. Consequently the
Guidance must assume that every individual’s self-identification is true and
healthy, given that a divine stamp of approval could hardly be given to something
untrue or unhealthy.
This raises a number of
questions in relation to anthropology and eschatology:
What is gender? Does the Guidance
assume that there are typical ways of being a man or a woman which are
independent of our biological sex, gender stereotypes which we endorse by
validating someone’s claim to have discovered their true gender?
If so, are our souls gendered in
the same way that our bodies are sexed?
If so, is congruity between the
gender of the soul and the sex of the body desirable?
If so, should we encourage sex
reassignment surgery and proclaim that a person’s resurrection body will
correspond to the gender of their soul?
Are the options binary? The Guidance only speak of male-to-female and female-to-male
transitions. It is not clear whether intergender, agender, demigender, genderfluid, pangender or culturally defined "third gender" identities are also to be affirmed.
I am concerned about being tied
to a particular story (a) without any justification for preferring this narrative
over others and (b) without any exploration of the impact that accepting this story has on other areas of our belief. This is without even talking about the use of the Reaffirmation of Baptismal Vows in this context which for both theological and pastoral reasons I consider inappropriate in any case.
On a minor point, I note that
Canon Law proscribes that a child brought to baptism must have at least one
godparent of the same sex as the child and one of the opposite sex. I would assume
that this must still be read as referring to biological sex but this could lead
to intrusive questioning or to a situation in which a child has three
godfathers or three godmothers. It would be useful to clarify what is and is
not desirable and legal in this case.
Postscript: Matthew Lee Anderson offers a critique in Baptizing the Spirit of the Age in which he observes:
Postscript: Matthew Lee Anderson offers a critique in Baptizing the Spirit of the Age in which he observes:
At the heart of the guidance is a prioritization of the “pastoral,” which effectively cordons the ceremony off from meaningful theological reflection. This leaves the guidance grossly underdetermined, reducing priests to cheerleaders for those on their way to a new sex.Martin Davie, The House of Bishops and Transgender: Fifteen Wasted Years, castigates the House of Bishops for failing to answer key questions which had been raised in Some Issues in Human Sexuality, the discussion document the House published in 2003, and for failing to offer an adequate theological justification for the position the House adopted then or now.